Earlier this week Rocky was on TV and I got to share parts of it with my 7 year old daughter for the first time. She would flit in, cuddle up next to me for a little while, ask me a question or two, watch, and then go skipping out of the room.
At one point she asked me, "Who's the bad guy in this movie." When I was a boy my answer would have been Apollo Creed. I thought about her question and I knew that wasn't the right answer. Apollo's an antagonist, but he's no villain. He's just a guy who's looking to make a buck and keep the business he's created around his talent moving forward.
As we kept watching I explained to E there are some stories where the hero fights a villain, and there are some stories where the hero fights against nature to survive. Then there are some stories where the hero fights himself. She gave me a funny look when I said that, so I explained.
"Look at Rocky. He's a guy who fights, but this story is about how he gets ready to fight. He has to train and he has to break bad habits so he can be ready to fight Apollo. Rocky would never be ready to beat him if he didn't take care of all his habits and attitudes that were holding him back."
She thought about it for a little bit, and picked up her Nerf gun and started chasing her brother. Not long after she flitted out of the room Rocky goes to see Paulie. This is how the scene goes:
Paulie: [talking about Adrian] You like her?
Rocky: Sure, I like her.
Paulie: What's the attraction?
Rocky: I dunno... she fills gaps.
Paulie: What's 'gaps'?
Rocky: I dunno, she's got gaps, I got gaps, together we fill gaps.
As a kid this scene slipped past me, this was a movie about boxing then. All of the Adrian stuff was time I could run around the house in my Superman Underoos.
Or maybe it was just cut from the TV edits when I was a kid because Paulie asks Rocky if he's "ballin" his sister.
Either way, it's something Jen and I talked about, and she brought it up again a few days later after she heard "Home" by Edward Sharpe and the Maganetic Zeros on Rdio. If you aren't familar, here's the song:
We've all got gaps. Home is where our friends and family help cover them for us.